Give a compliment. Many times we think something nice about a friend, or even a stranger, but don’t tell them. Instead of letting that thought pass, say it out loud. For example, if a sales associate has great hair, a bright smile, or stylish shoes, just say, “You know, I just have to tell you…” We have all had our day made by a compliment, so go ahead and bring someone joy today!
From the series: 25 Days of Darling
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Put others first. There are only a few shopping days until Christmas, and parking lots and malls are a scene of mayhem; people are on edge–honking at one another and fighting for their place in long lines. Until Christmas, be conscientious while driving, even give someone a parking spot you were about to take. If someone is in a hurry, let them go in front of you in line. Keep in mind that it’s not about being “first;” its about love. And as you practice this, perhaps it will spill over into your life no matter what time of year.
From the series: 25 Days of Darling
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Send a Christmas card to your kindergarten or first grade teacher. Yes it was ages ago, but with the amount of social networking sites we now have, you might be able to find him/her easier. If you can’t send a physical card, Darling recommends Paperless Post for cute e-cards. In your card thank them for their years of dedication in education. Teaching can sometimes be a tough, thankless job, so they will really appreciate the thought of sending them a Christmas surprise. And of course they will remember you!
From the series: 25 Days of Darling
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Give away a book that has changed your life. You know that book that you absolutely loved…the one you always refer to in times of trouble? There may be someone who can use the same wisdom. Write a little note of what that book meant to you, and pass it on.
From the series: 25 Days of Darling
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During the holiday season, it’s a challenge to keep things simple and focus on what’s important; to resist the commercial propaganda surrounding you, while still being generous and giving to those you love.
This year, tradition, or guilt, or (hopefully!) a generous spirit will compel many of us to buy gifts. Budget constraints will compel many of us to get creative. Handmade gifts are great for the crafty giver, but for those without the dexterity or the extra time, there’s a simpler way to send a gift packed with heartfelt meaning. Many charitable organizations’ websites have gifts that you can order online! You can give to those you love, and at the same time, bless someone across the world. As a bonus, you’ll avoid those drivers with extra seasonal road rage, and the overabundance of shoppers in aisles and checkout lines.
There are many worthy causes, and here are just a few suggestions:
1. World Vision is a Christian humanitarian organization that battles poverty and injustice for children worldwide, and works with their families and their communities to help them reach their full potential. World Vision’s online gift catalog includes “Maximum Impact” gifts, which are a wide range of items from coffee and mugs, to plush toys, and silk scarves. You can even tell a friend that instead of buying them a gift you bought a family in need a goat or chicken through World Vision, which will give them a sustainable source of nutrition and income. Plus, the animals multiply to help more families in need!
2. NightLight International fights against human trafficking and prostitution in Thailand and the US, addressing not only the resulting issues, but also the causes. NightLight’s vision is to enable sexually exploited women and children to discover their dignity, and achieve holistic transformation.
NightLight’s online store offers jewelry made from silver, semi-precious stones, pearls and decorative beads by artisans from Thailand. And prices are affordable, starting around $15, with tons of items in the $30 range.
3. Sari Bari fights against the sex trade in India by providing employment to women who are either trapped in the sex trade, or are vulnerable to it.
Sari Bari’s online store contains colorful, vintage items handmade from Indian saris, including bags and blankets. Each item is marked with the name of the woman who made it.
Remembering the struggles that others face worldwide, it’s impossible to not count your blessings. Happy gifting!
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Go to the dollar store and buy items for “care packages” for homeless people. Keep them in your car so you can hand them out to those you encounter on the street or freeway exits. Instead of handing out money, this is a way to ensure they will receive things they probably truly need.
Ideas: (make sure they are small so they can fit in a ziplock bag)
Toothbrush
Toothpaste
Snacks
Hairbrush
Soap
Deodorant
Socks
Water
Small Bible or encouraging book
From the series: 25 Days of Darling
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Write a handwritten card or note to a friend or loved one. If this person lives in your home, leave it as a surprise on their pillow, in their closet, or perhaps in the bathroom cabinet.
From the series: 25 Days of Darling
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Offer to buy or cook a friend breakfast. Try and pick a friend who is short on cash, or perhaps unemployed. One-on-one time is so meaningful, especially when you really need the support of a friend.
From the series: 25 Days of Darling
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