9 Things Nobody Tells You When Starting a Business

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“The world is full of people who can talk your ear off about all the reasons they can’t possibly begin what they’re longing to begin. Let’s not be those people. Let’s start where we are.” -Shauna Niequist

I bet you clicked on this article for a few reasons. Perhaps you need that extra push to make the move from dreamer to doer. Maybe you simply desire opportunities for professional growth. Or, it could be that you feel compelled to learn about entrepreneurial success to reassure yourself that there’s hope for you and your small business. This article is step one for you.

I’m Emily Howard, founder, creative director and CEO of Consider the Wldflwrs, a jewelry company based out of Nashville, Tennessee. This month we launched Eden, our engagement ring line, and last month we opened a brick-and-mortar store in the front of our studio space. But CTWF wasn’t always diamonds and white walls. I started my business in July of 2013 by selling necklaces on a free website host with less than $100.

Although I don’t regret it now, I was a bit naïve when starting my business. After a successful three months of selling jewelry online, I became a legal LLC, opened a second bank account and signed a month-to-month lease to rent a desk in a co-working space. There was no heat in the winter and no air conditioning in the summer — just a ton of dust and sweaty men using the wood shop.

Needless to say, the first year of business was a lot of ups and downs. Naïvete can be good, but it’s not great. Learning to mix confidence with knowledge is ideal. Entrepreneurs are full-time students learning how to balance their ideas, creativity and skills. Successful entrepreneurs become experts at avoiding pitfalls while taking risks to grow their business.

Here are nine things I’ve learned in the first three years of owning my own:

1. Begin with revenue.

It’s nice that you have a dream, but the reality is that you will need to make money. Whether you are planning on pitching to investors or building a customer-funded business, you will need cash flow. Cash flow is the heartbeat of your business. Author and entrepreneur Seth Godin writes, “It pays to have big dreams but low overhead.” Overhead are things such as rent, payroll and other monthly expenses. Make a plan and write specific goals for how you are going to make money.

2. Protect your IP.

IP stands for Intellectual Property. Trademark your work and spend time on your privacy policies from the beginning. Talk to a trademark lawyer and make sure you are covering all your bases in the legal sense. Have a designated spot for organizing all paperwork, legal documents and trademarks. Trust me, you will get a lot of paperwork mailed to you and you want to make sure you don’t throw away something important because you thought it was spam.

3. Market yourself.

Free marketing on social media is the key to growing your start-up with low overhead. Research social media marketing ideas, and do your homework. Study businesses that are doing what you do. Know your target audience and study CRM (customer relationship management) within your company. Where is your ideal customer currently spending their money if not on you? Connect with like-minded small business owners, and learn from each other. I am currently in a mastermind group with seven female, small business leaders in Nashville. We get together every other week to discuss various aspects of running a small business. Be proactive and curious. Ask questions.

 Naïvete can be good, but it’s not great. Learning to mix confidence with knowledge is ideal.

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4. Know your “why.”

If cash flow is the heartbeat of your business, the why is the actual heart. If you can’t write down the internal, external or philosophical problem your company is working to solve, your business won’t have a backbone.

“He who has a why can endure any how.” – Frederick Nietzsche

5. Understand yourself so that you can make great hires.

“Organizations are never limited by their opportunity. They are limited by their leader.” – Dave Ramsey

You are the leader. You need passion, integrity, humility, courage and self-discipline. Know your strengths, weaknesses and leadership capabilities so that when the time comes to make a hire or seek support, you know where you are lacking. Become self-aware and discern in what areas you need to improve. Start by taking personality tests that give you insight into your tendencies. My go-to test for myself and my team members is the DISC profile. Every interviewee that we are seriously considering hiring takes this test before we offer a position. Your interview process should be EXTENSIVE. Turnover can kill a start-up. I recommend reading these 6 steps to a good hire.

6. You are NOT the boss.

Your customers are the boss. Your customers are the hero. It’s ALL about your customers. The story about how and why you started your company isn’t as important as how and why your customers need your product. I highly recommend studying Donald Miller’s StoryBrand to help you get an idea of what this looks like for your company. Learn how to serve your customers, but know that once in a while your customer might be wrong. This article taught me about the freedom to occasionally “fire” a customer. Embrace the concept that your product is not for everyone.

 The story about how and why you started your company isn’t as important as how and why your customers need your product.

7. Build structure and find balance.

Professionals show up and do the work when they don’t feel like it. Become obsessed with time-management or you will begin drowning in chaos. Build structure for your business so that you can find healthy work-life balance. Read time management books and find a routine. I recommend Manage Your Day-to-Day by Jocelyn K. Glei and What the Most Successful People Do Before Breakfast by Laura Vanderkam.

8. Build a tax savings account and an emergency fund savings. 

Finances and managing cash flow are two of the biggest distractions for any business. If you don’t have a CFO from the start, hire an accountant and/or bookkeeper, and build your savings. An emergency fund for your business can be anywhere from three months to a year of overhead expenses you have saved in the case of sudden disaster. Move money into your tax savings account every month and don’t touch it. Every quarter, while millions of business owners are scrambling to move around money for taxes, you’ll be able to stay hyper-focused on developing your business.

9. Embrace change and challenges. 

“Entrepreneurs are simply those who understand that there is little difference between the obstacle and opportunity and are able to turn both into their advantage.” – Seth Godin

You will face many obstacles, ups and downs. I could spend all day telling you about all of the bumps I’ve experienced in the last three years but then I would be talking the problem — not the solution. Seth Godin says, “You’re going to do your best work, and it’s not going to work. Taking it personally will cripple you.” It’s ok to be unprepared when you start. There are many variables you cannot control no matter how organized you feel. You will be much more stress-free if you learn to embrace change and don’t grip your business by the throat.

Recommended Sources:

Books: Entreleadership by Dave Ramsey, The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni, What to Do When it’s Your Turn by Seth Godin, The Thank You Economy by Gary Vaynerchuck, Delivering Happiness by Tony Hsieh, The Accidental Creative by Todd Henry, Good to Great by Jim Collins.

Website Hosts: Squarespace, Big Cartel, Shopify, Bigcommerce, Magento

Online Bookkeeping: Xero, QuickBooks, FreshBooks

Podcasts: EntreLeadership, EOFire, Donald Miller

Images via Anna Howard



Emily Howard is 25 and living in Nashville, TN. She founded Consider the Wldflwrs in 2013, aiming to create simple staple pieces for the everyday girl. Emily has been traveling to Honduras every 6 months to teach jewelry lessons to a small group of women on the mountain of San Matias as part of Consider the Wldflwrs mission. Emily mostly loves styling customers in studio, meeting with couples for bridal jewelry and leading the CTWF team in Nashville.

8 COMMENTS
  • dheeraj555 November 4, 2016

    great article. which I have read above.seriouly these article will to start my new own business.

  • Chloe Somerfield May 15, 2016

    Wow – this is very insightful.I’m in the process of building/launching a service-based business and can definitely resonate with many of these points. I’m not at the stage where I can recruit and invest in bookkeepers and assistant as such but these a great things to consider and start savings funds for. And I completely agree about building structure! Having a schedule in place so that you can embrace spontaneity where needed is essential. Thanks for sharing. Chloe – http://www.soulandsparkle.com

    • Emily Howard May 16, 2016

      Hey Chloe! Great to hear and I hope you find joy in pursuing soulandsparkle! It looks like a lot of work and a lot of fun. Congrats to you!

  • Jerri Jones May 15, 2016

    Super good article. Regarding #1. How did you learn to do a “Plan?” Do you recommend resources?

    • Emily Howard May 16, 2016

      Hey Jerri! I would recommend the book “What to do when it’s your turn: and it’s always your turn” by Seth Godin. This book helps paint a picture of what it looks like to go from “noticing” and “dreaming” to “doing.” You can spend a year working on the “why” and story of your business, but the reality is that you just need to start small so that you can experience what is selling and what your customers like. So for example, if I offered a lawn care service, I wouldn’t start working on my logo and go look for trailers I can attach to my truck before I get a few jobs. Your top priority should be serving your customers so that they will talk about you and you can begin to organically spread the word about your business. Let your customers tell their friends why they need YOUR service or product over another companys’. You’ll learn a lot when you start there! And take it one step at a time. It’s good to dream but you don’t need a 5 year plan when you haven’t started!

      • Bria McKamey May 31, 2016

        This is such good advice, Emily! As someone who launched their blog about 7 months ago, I spent so much time (way too much) in the design aspect of my blog when really, I just needed to launch.

        I’m a perfectionist, and wanting things to be a certain way with my site and brand hindered me so much and has made the time between launching and acquiring my first customer much longer.

        Thanks for a great article.

  • Maggie Mahboubian May 14, 2016

    Number 6! It really is all about the customer. Great article!

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